Wednesday, August 08, 2007

What's on my mind?

This is a jumled up update on what I’ve been thinking lately.

Currently there are two main things on my mind:-
1. The Holiday.
2. The Double Birthday Celebration.

Both needs planning.

I’ve read Eiseai’s blog on her family holiday to OZ. Few things concern me:-
1. The size of the bassinet in the flight. Only that big? I’m sure Aliff won’t tolerate the size of that confined space. Dia yg jenis tido golek2 from one end of the bed to the other end. We’ve tried training him to sleep in the crib but he is very much restless. Oh, I hope we survive the 8-hr journey. Hmmm…might sound nasty but I’ve been thinking of cough syrup lately….

2. The head gear. Eiseai’s Amir wore a hat and Asyraf wore a snow cap. My boys hate anything on their head. Part of it is our fault. When Ashraff was merely a baby, we let him wore a cap coz we . Tapi tumbuh ruam2 merah yang sangat banyak dikepala sebab peluh, so from there onwards, we thrash the idea of wearing him any head gear. So now, Ashraff hates to put on any caps. Aliff pulak..entahlah, tak pernah cuba nak pakaikan…

But I presumed, they’ll be fine without any headgear, coz rambut masing-masing dah panjang. So that could keep them warm, I hope.

Now this month I got invited to Aidan’s First Birthday Bash. They are having “Pirate” as the theme, with the theme colour being white, black and red.

Hmmm…what would my boys be wearing? All pirates wear head gear and am sure my boys would hate that idea. Dotty, kalau tak ikut theme bolehkan? But tak syok lah pulak…

On the party planning, fuhh…still a lot more to do…

Let me see what we’ve got so far…

The Theme – check.
The Venue – check.
The Date – check.
The Party Favor – in 3 categories : adults, kids and babies. Kids’ are well taken care of. Adults? Still indecisive. We were thinking of a mug (filled with candy). Or candle with personalized wrapping. Or bookmark. Personally, if you were my guest, which one would you prefer? For babies, I intend to look for squeaky / noisy toys. Party shops’ favors are priced ridiculously. Kat mana nak cari yang murah ye? 2 ringgit shop?
The Cake – need to get quotation from our client who’s doing bakery and pastry for the past 20 years (he’s the one who did the cake for DatukCTNurhaliza’s nikah and reception). If it’s exorbitant, I might order from a friend of mine who does 3D cakes.
Decoration – balloons, streamers and ribbons. But still haven’t thought of banner. Kalau nak buat customized banner mesti mahal punya.
Games and activity – only one thing that is confirmed which is bubble time. I’ve been pondering on few other activities that is suitable for Ashraff’s and Aliff’s age but need to have a look at the budget. Any ideas are welcomed.

Oh, we intend to do aqiqah as well. Don’t be surprised that we haven’t done aqiqah for Ashraff and Aliff yet. So, dah alang-alang nak buat jamuan, terus buat aqiqah sekali. But, nope it’s not going to be for both. That’ll be way above our budget. It’s going to be for Ashraff only. Cuma 2 kambing je yang akan tumbang, insyaAllah.

Lately also I was thinking of having cupcakes for the birthday. And also a mascot for the party. Ishk, banyak betul Ibu ni nak buat. If only money is not an issue..hehe…

Oh you guys, having list down all these preparations, takkanlah we all tak jemput u all pulak. InsyaAllah, you guys will be invited. Just hope everything turns out as planned.

Now, please check out this link to see a clearer picture of Ashraff’s chocolate wrapper and this link for more information on the product (including the price), in case you are interested.

13 comments:

mommamia said...

wah,so much in ibu's mind!still remember reading your previous post bout yr anxious of travelling with two little boys to Oz land,and nah the month is coming!dont wory raf,all of u will be doing ok,just pray the the boys will be sleeping all the way to Oz,that cough syrup?haha!i always have that same idea when we travel to t'ganu hoho!-ye la aidan's b'day party ada pirate theme,i pun tak tau nak pakaikan irina apa,i pun baru nk tanya dotty kalau tak ikut theme boleh tak?hihi

Kaklong Syikin said...

salam,

kunjungan balas ni sis :D. tq dtg blog saya ya. harap2nya semua perancangan sis tu berjalan lancar :D

eiseais said...

babes,

bassinet tu muat actually. if you're travelling on a night flight, get aliff to sleep on your first, then put him in the bassinet (try to look for my gold coast trip pix and see how we fit oversized amir in it). another way is give him drowsy cough mixture...hehehhe...we did that with amir too. he slept almost troughout the journey!

the caps - amir is ok with caps cos he wears them here too, so that's not a big prob. asyraf hates them tho, that's why we gave the snowcap. mula2 he looked pi**ed off but after a while i think he didnt realise. but i doubt its gonna be too cold by the time you get there so if they dont like it, you can chuck the hats. even on our last 2 days it wasnt cold dah. but then sydney could be different.

hehehe...party favour dilemma? i know what's that like. hint hint - i would love the mug filled with candies :)

be seeing you at the pirate party. alamak...i also donno how to dress the boys. kalau tak ikut theme, sure tak cool kan?

MAMAMIA said...

Travelling with infant, will be tiring. be prepared. don't forget to bring the stroller, will come in handy.

pasal theme pirate party tu, think out of the box, dress them up as "lanun cetak rompak". Tak yah pakai head gear kot, janji lanun!!!

Jungle Playland said...

Huhuhuh!!! Don't worry you mommies out there.. (huh tak ku sangka ade discussion pasal Aidan's party ere) hahah!!
Pirates Bandanna and Eye patch will be given to all the kids.. so just wear anything.

wow you have to plan 2 big events- holiday and party. Banyak to think of tuu...

There a tea for kids (sleeping tea) for long travelling. You can get it at the Curve.

I havent reply to ur email coz im still searching for the best photo of aidan.. Hmm mana satu yer?

Nana said...

wah.. bz nye u! aku yg tengah cuti ni pon tak pikir byk2 mende.. heheh.. anyway, i think either the mug or the bookmark would be nice.

pasal aqiqah pulak, if i'm not mistaken, u can do 1 kambing for ashraff and another for aliff. and some other time buat again for both of them instead of this time for ashraff and the next time for aliff.

anyway, hope u have fun in ozzieland!

Anonymous said...

yay! mommyalif won personalized newspaper * jolly jumping

semua nak pikir serentak.. goof luck with your planning to be done. eerr kambing mr hj arif kah?

Anonymous said...

seronok nye nak plan for holiday and special birthday party for the boys.

have fun

i think for mummies the bookmark or mugs sounds cool.

rafiqaheliza said...

mommamia: Keep on praying that the boys will be fine throughout the journey...I'm about to go into fear factor challenge ni - parents' series..hehe..

kaklong: terima kasih kak long..kunjunglah selalu:)

eiseai: cough syrup here I come! I'll check your archives on the GC trip. Nak email u mintak advice tak teremail2 lagi..Thanks for all your advice. Hope the weather is fine, but usually in spring weather will be unpreductable - sekejap sejuk, sekejap tak berapa sejuk, sometimes drizzling..
Thanks also for the "hint"..

mamamia: Oh yes, stroller's a must! lanun cetak rompak? hahaha...

aidan's mommy: sleeping tea? Wow, this is somethg new..but nak ke my kids minum teh? aidan got loads of cute picchas. Bagi satu jelah, atau pun I grabbed one from your blog, can?

rafiqaheliza said...

Nana: Cuti mmg waktu utk relax your body and mind. Eh, can buat half-half like that aa? That is nice...nanti i tanya dulu.

Mommyalif : Kambing hj arif lah, mana lagi..talked to him, and he sounds nice and very convincing with all his advices. Terus terpikat..(bukan kat dia, but on his service).

Lazydaisy: Seronok but pening kepala jugak. If I have the money, I'd hire party planner like David Tutera...

Wan Amira said...

waaa so much in ur mind.. but as u r creative, i bet it gonna be interesting ideas come out.. :D hehe

mommamia: i pun nak kene carik baju untuk party Aidan.. hehe, tak tau laa nak kasik pakai ape, in my mind, hitam putih je.. hehe

rafiqaheliza said...

wan: oh thanks, but it so does memeningkan kepala. I hope I could stop the time and work on my plans,and then resume the time. Now it's like the time is against me.
Oh, u got invited too? InsyaAllah, kita bleh jumpa...

Mommy at Home said...

Hi there,

You might want to consider BabyNat's Sleepynight Tea for Babies instead of cough mixture. You can get it at Justlife @ Ikano, grd floor. It looks something like this :(item #3)

http://www.rejuiceddestressed.com/products.asp?cat=17&pg=5

It's not really tea lah, just an infusion of different herbs. I made some after they served us our first meal. Baby did get sleepy and I let her sleep on my lap first before transferring her to the bassinet.

Unfortunately, mmg the bassinet is quite small, so what I did was ask for an extra pillow and put it under my baby's legs, so even tho her legs jutting out pun dia tak uncomfortable sgt.

I would also suggest bringing those ziplock bags and stuffing the baby's biscuits/snacks and organising them according to mealtime, i.e. lunch one bag, dinner one bag. So nanti senang je, pull them out and there you have it.

Another thing I brought along was the nappy sack from Mothercare; which is really just scented plastic bag. Out of consideration for fellow passengers, I found it really handy since it concealed the smell of smelly diapers. Heheh!

Good luck and have fun on your holiday. One thing good about travelling with children is that you'll never be bored on the flight!

*erkk...sorry ya, panjang pulak my comments.:)