Tuesday, January 23, 2007

3 Miserable Nights, 1 Memorable Event

Last week was so eventful, thus the next three entries are dedicated to cover all the ‘happening’ occasions - Aliff's 3rd time in the hospital, our 4th anniversary, Aliff's cukur jambul ceremony and brother-in-law's wedding reception (an army wedding not to be missed).

13th January, 14th January and 15th January 2007

Aliff was again admitted to the hospital. For the 3rd time in his 2 ½ months life. Pretty sad, isn’t it? This time around, it was due to bronchitis. He has been coughing for one week and has lost his voice.

That night, on the 13th January, Aliff was crying unconsolably. As usual, we suspected it must have been colic. Since it was time to give his usual dose of cough medicine and antibiotic, and not forgotten Dentinox for his colic, we proceeded in doing so, despite the cry. It was a wrong decision altogether. As we shove in the last medicine, Aliff was choking and gasping for air. His face has suddenly turned blue. My mother who was holding him that time panicked and shook his body to make him breathe. I was stunned (I think I forget how to breathe myself). Hubby being the knight in shining armour that night, immediately took Aliff from Mak, patted his back firmly till Aliff finally coughed. My maid then put his finger inside Aliff’s mouth to take out all the phlegm. Phewwhhh…It was a horrible sight.

Shortly after, we drove to hospital and yes, Aliff was admitted. In fact, he was the youngest baby in the ward. Aliff was on nebuliser every three hourly for three nights. But alhamdulillah, he recovered well and finally got back his voice, despite all the crying everytime he is on nebuliser.



As a result off constant crying, my usual placid baby is no longer calm and contented. He has turned into a fussy baby, much to my dismay. His brother, Ashraff was a demanding baby, so I thought I was lucky to have a happy baby this time around. Rupa-rupanya, harapan tinggal harapan. In fact, it is tougher this time around as we couldn’t find way to soothe him everytime he cries. The moment he wakes up from his sleep, he will coo for about 5 to 10 minutes, and then whines till he sleeps again. In the evening, things got worsen as it is his peak time for colic. At night, he couldn’t sleep well, again, due to his colic. Seriously, I’m exhausted especially now that abang dia pulak is down with runny nose and cough. Memang dugaan betul dalam membesarkan anak. If u look at me now, I’m slimmer than my pre-pregnancy figure…*LOL*..except for the apparent eye bag…and not to mention, skin break-outs…

17th January 2007

Four years ago, on the same date, me and hubby selamat diijabkabulkan.Four years later, we are still much in love and happily married. And now blessed with two sons, Ashraff and Aliff.


Happy 4th Anniversary, dear. Thank you for being a supportive husband and be there for me through good times and bad times.


13 comments:

Juliah & Faridah said...

ija, aliff masuk sepital lagi? sian nye.. budak kalau batuk, bila muntah tu macam lega je dia..sbb dah kluar kahak tu semua. semua dah okay skang eh? Alhamdulillah.
eh, korang kawin sehari before my birthday eh..eheheh..:P

Anonymous said...

hi there,

bloghopping dari mommamia, ur babies r so cute....n handsome!! ni yang teringin nak anak lelaki ni :)

about colic tu, ada sapu apa2 tak kat perut dia, macam minyak telon ke? my baby sejak lahir i sapu minyak yunyi cap limau tu, Alhamdulillah, takde masalah colic, in fact mama dan babah dia pun guna gak kalau sakit perut....heheh

anyway, harap aliff cepat sembuh and everything back to normal :)

eiseais said...

i couldnt finish your first paragraph cos i was crying when i got to d part where aliff turned blue. sedih nya :(

does d ubat for colic work? thot asyraf had colic last time but he seems better now, just nak prepare.

Nana said...

wah.. rajinnya ko blog lately ni! anyway, hope aliff feels better now. and happy belated anniversary to you and fitri!

mommamia said...

hi ija,u know your name sama dgn my sister's name ija and her son name aliff too!and aliff tu pun slalu kluar masuk wad sbb athma, what a coincidencekan-btw b strong,mmg dugaan besarkan anak2 ni,harap u terus bersabar-i'm not so sure athma and bronchitis ni same catagory ke tak,but my sis ada try petua bg mkn hati unta, telur penyu or errr belut(eww) bg son dia mkn,just want to share this info with u,get well soon aliff!

bakerina said...

hi. i blog hopped from eseai's. hang in there, eh? mmg byk dugaan jd ibu ni. but things will get better, god willing.

rafiqaheliza said...

Haariz's mom: Ha'ah, masuk spital lagi:( The thg about Aliff dia mmg susah nak muntakkan kahak..Tu yg kena bronhitis tu.

Noha: Hi! Thanks for dropping by? Do u have a blog? U anak pompuan je ke? I teringin nak girl (kena try kali ke-3 ni *LOL*). Oh, minyak yunyi tulah our saviour for Aliff's colic...Now, dia dah improve.

Eiseai: Memang panic masa he turned blue tu..masyaAllah. Dentinox and minyak yuyee are our two best solutions. But takdelah cure 100%.

rafiqaheliza said...

Nana: Ni tgh 'peak time' for blogging. Nanti hilang mood ngan idea, berzamanlah tak update blog aku..Thanks for the anniversary wish!

Mommamia: What a coincidence! Hati unta, telur penyu and belut? I sendiri pun tak makan benda2 tu..so tak tau sanggup nak bagi aliff ke tak. But kalau tu penawarnya, apa salahnya cuba. FYI, asthma and bronchitis tak sama. Bronchitis ni tak silap inflammation of the lung. One-off case. Thanks for dropping by!

Bakerina: Thanks for dropping by! Mmg byk dugaan. Now I really appreciate my mother's (and father's) sacrifices.

Anonymous said...

weh banyaknyer update.

Macam tu ke cara nak keluarkan phlegm (refers to your maid)? Takutnya.

Anonymous said...

hye sis...OMG!! dah lamer giler tak drop by.....congrats on ur second baby sis....comel sgt!!!!!!comel sangat sangat sangat!!!!
dier slalu sakit ek sis....hope everything will be ok...fer ur baby n u....take care....kish kan aliff utk i eks..heheheh..muahsss2!!

famyGirl said...

sian aliff :(
i masih trauma terkenangkan time sofea and aidiin were hospitalized. sebab bronchitis juga.

rafiqaheliza said...

Roti2: Tgh ada story..and mood...Yes, camtu rupanya nak kuarkan kahak. I wouldn't dare to!

Julie: Kiss, kiss, kiss Aliff..Kiss him everyday!

Famy: Mmg trauma kalau anak kena admitted. The misery u have to go thru..ahh tell me bout it..

Anonymous said...

hai... mmm, benda ni pon jadi same kat anak i... ohoho, jaga dr tido dlm kul 2am da biru coz x dpt nafas kahak byk sgt... dgn rasminya bmula la episod ulang alik ke hospital or kena admit terus... hoho, tersangat la faham keadaan u... papepon semoga alif n bb nujaid cpt sembuh. Ameen