Monday, May 15, 2006

A Gift for Mother's Day

Ashraff's vocabulary has significantly improved for the last one month, much to our relief. At least now he can repeat the words we are saying sensibly. Pandai jugak anak ku berkata-kata. Now, it is easier for us to communicate.

Here are some of Ashraff's vocabs, and most of it baru sebulan ni je pandai sebut:-
Words
1. Car (perfect!)
2. Train (perfecto!)
3. Bus (nicely said!)
4. Am (when he sees McDonalds or any foods)
5. Air (perfecto!)
6. Ayie (lebih kurang mcm air, but it's lorry actually).
7. Wa-wa-wa tu (bulan. Ni atok dia ajar wa-wa-wa tu bulan).
8. Bawang (ni Bibik yg ajar).
9. Water (can use interchangeably with air).
10. Where? (perfect!)
11. Goong-Goong (for dog)
12. Auw (for cat. Macam bunyi kucing gatal je).
13. Duck (perfect!)
14. Bee (lebah)
15. Bai-bai (sounds like bye-bye, but it's for butterfly. Guess, butterfly is a hard word for him).
16. Api (for fire)
17. Bang-bang (for his gun or everytime he sees tembak-menembak action on the screen).
18. Patah (everytime his toys patah / damage).
19. Bear
20. Pish (Fish)
21. Wow! (everytime he sees something impressive).
22. Ouch! (sakit lepas jatuh).
23. Allah (everytime nampak kita solat, nampak sejadah or telekung, or azan berkumandang).
24. Ukh-ukh (bila "membuang", if u got what I mean..hehehe)
25. No! (for almost everything that he refused to)
26. Atas
27. Bawah
28. Star
29. Goal! (this is his first word).

Phrase (more than one word in one go)
1. Nak am (Nak makan)
2. Nak air (nak air suam or susu..pandai2lah figure out which one).
3. One-Two-Bee (for one-two-three).
4. This one (everytime he pointed out something in the book, he'll say "this one" then he'll look at our face for us to tell him what is the thing he is pointing)
5. Dah habishh dah (bila cerita kat TV dah habis, or dah selamat "membuang", or dah habis minum susu).
6. Air..Bawah (nak swimming. Maknanya nak pergi main air dekat bawah).
7. Bang-bang patah / Ayie patah / Car patah (depending on which toys yang damage).
8. Ayah car (Ayah's car)

People/Character
1. Barney (perfect!)
2. Jojo (Jojo's circus)
3. Oo-oo-oo (for Bob the Builder. I don't know how he got that.)
4. Ayah
5. Abah (for tok abah)
6. Adok (for tok mak)
7. Abang
8. Kakak
9. Ana (for his Aunty Ana)
10. Nenek (for Nek Lon).
11. Bibik
12. Baby (lebih kurang sama macam Bibik bunyinye..kena dgr betul2).

Wow! Quite a lot when I listed it down. But, how come there's no "Ibu"?
That's because he just refused to say it, or probably he finds it hard to do so. Not even a simple "Bu" comes out from his mouth! Tension babe!!

At one time, I felt the urge of changing "Ibu" to a simpler word like "Mama" or "Ummi", which apparently he can say it perfectly. Tapi hubby kept on reassuring me that one day he'll say the word. "He is saving the best for last," kata hubby.

Indeed, it is true.

On 12th May 2006, for the very first time, Ashraff looked at my face, straight into my eyes and said the word that I am waiting to hear since the day he was born...I-B-U. Sempurna sekali bunyinya. Ya Allah! Bergenang air mata...

I asked him again "Ni siapa Ashraff?" while patting my chest.

"I-BU" followed by a wide grin on his face.

I could not help it but to hug and kiss him on his cheek.

"Ibu, Ibu, Ibu"...He repeated the word few times, while clapping his hands, showing a sign of achievement. He looked satisfied that he could say the word. Nampaknya bukan ibu sahaja yang puashati, Ashraff pun puashati dapat cakap "Ibu".

Then, I rushed outside the room together with Ashraff to break the news to hubby, who was watching Astro (most probably channel 80, 81 or 82).

I asked him to ask Ashraff who am I.

Ashraff replied with a wide grin "I-BU"...then he clapped his hands.

Me and hubby both celebrated the success by clapping our hands too. Ashraff is so excited that he can say the word, he ended up ketawa sambil guling-guling atas carpet. What a moment to remember...

That is the best Mother's Day gift I have so far!

I hope it is not too late for me to wish "HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!" to all mothers out there!!

23 comments:

Hot Mama said...

Auw macam laki lembut.. hehehe
Alaa so sceeet.. he finally said it! I-B-U!! Congrats.. I'm sure it is one of the happiest day of ur life! Betul kata hubby u dia simpan the best for last!

Anonymous said...

yeah! first to comment...seronok kan Ija layan bebudak ni...wish you "Happy Mother's Day"...semoga dikurniakan anak2 yang bijak2 cam mak ngan abah dia...

Nana said...

aisehman.. bergenang airmata aku la ija! i surely can understand how u feel.

rina said...

kalau my son dulu sebut butterfly = awer (read : flower)... sebab dia tgk butterfly cam flower :D. mcm2 idea dorangkan...

Anonymous said...

pandainya, sebut penuh lak tu. Najwa dulu panggil Bu Bu Bu je. Kalau dia sebut i-bu jadi i-buk indon style.

rafiqaheliza said...

hotmama: The 'Auw' sound is so funny..Nak cakap Miau susah sgt kot..

Smiley: Thanks, babe. Mmg sonok layan toddler, tapi kekadang geram gak..grrr...

Nana: Aku ketawa sambil menangis masa dia sebut tu..

Rina: Awer? So cute! Yeah, they are sooo creative!!

Rotidua: Susah jugak dia nak sebut Ibu tu..it takes him 5 seconds to sebut, sambil kembang2 idung & terangkat2 kening dia..hehehe..

Unknown said...

ohhhh sungguh terharu aku membaca blog mu muakakakakkakaka......i would prob feel the same way when the time comes kot...but cannot decide yet whether its gonna be ibu ke, mummy ke, mama ke...ammi ke...ummi ke...what do u think eh?

mommy@lif said...

sweetnyaaaa !pandai ur son, dlm byk² hari, dia pilih hari ibu nak express his love for you!! eh byk betul vocab ashraff :)

LindaMunshi said...

Sarah sebut "Mimi" when she was 1. I thought she was addressing me cuma tak reti sebut jek. After that she pointed to the TV, to the couch,to the newspaper, to just about everything except for me and called it all "Mimi". She could only say mummy when she was 2.

rafiqaheliza said...

Onde2: Mmg priceless gift ni..tak bleh beli ngan Visa card-:) I noticed that most kids senang nak sebut words started with "A". Anak my friend called her "Abu".

Fina: U'll be sooo emotional when it comes to calling names, esp bila semua org punya nama dia dah pandai, and u as her/his mother tak pandai lagi..sedih beb! So far i rasa Mama is the easiest kot..

rafiqaheliza said...

Alif's mommy: Just a coincidence I believe, but I'm emo all over-:) Lepas baik deman one month ago, banyak pulak vocab dia..

Sarah's mummy: Hahahaha...Mimi is cute!! 2 years is a long time to wait, yeah?
P.S : I didn't get your order. Mind emailing it again to rafiqah_eliza@yahoo.com? Thanks!

Lazydaisy said...

oo i can imagine you smiling from ear to ear when he finally say the three letter word. congrats heeh

i baca ur entry i pulak yg emotional heheh maybe sebab pregnant kut extra emotional lately ni :)

nanti tak lama lagi u will come to a stage yg wonder bile ur son will stop talking heheh, thats what i do feel sometimes :)

Anonymous said...

Yay...after this mesti dia asyik panggil you...ibu..ibu...My 15mo Hannah call me ma......sometimes ayah pun dia panggil ma...

kaezrin said...

clever ashraff...

i can feel it..efi selalu bila i balik keje..the monmet i bukak pintu rumah dier lari kat i peluk..mamaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...

oh so sweet.....

rafiqaheliza said...

lazydaisy: I macam u jugak, terlebih emotional..must be the pregnancy hormone. Macamanalah agaknya i nak cope when the time comes when he can't stop talking..and asking...

Butterflutter: My hubby cukup suka Ashraff dah pandai cakap Ibu. Dia cakap takdelah he's the only one to be blamed kalau Ashraff's toys damage. Skang ni everytime we asked Ashraff "Sapa yang rosakkan toys?". Dia mesti cakap "Ayah". Padahal dia sendiri yang buat. Soon, Ibu's name akan naik pulak...

Kaezrin: skang ni everytime balik kerja still "Ayahhhhh.." lagi, walaupun i yg first masuk rumah. I-BU masih susah untuk disebut. Took him 5 seconds to come out with the word...

Anonymous said...

aaaaa..so sweeeeet...... ;)
eppy fer u kakak.... ;)

eiseais said...

so sweet!! how old is ashraff? amir cant say mumy yet too. he's been saying "daddy" for months(even tho berkerut2 mulut nak sebut) but mummy is still "meehhhh" or "memememememe". tak pe la...at night, he still looks for me :-)

Juliah & Faridah said...

hi ija,
baru ada masa nak membaca blog org lain ni.. busy betul la 2-3 hari ni.

yeay! ashraff dah sebut IBU! .. bagus..

itu "nak am" macam kenal la ..hehe

lepas ni bila dua kenit ni berjumpa.. boleh la borak banyak skit :)

Anonymous said...

Congratulation....so sweet....

famyGirl said...

YAYYYYY for Ashraff!!!! *claps*

actually yay utk Ibu Ashraff jugak hee hee. told you it's just a matter of time ;)
pandai Ashraff tunggu to say it on Mother's Day. sungguh thoughtful. dia tau Ibu dia tentu cair punya :p

Anonymous said...

Akak,
apsal lama tak blog????

Anonymous said...

hi ija..tis is ery (mrsm kt 93/94)
i'm not sure u still ingat i ke tak. but i happen to spot ur blog in "rotidua's" list..i harap2 i tak salah org.
clue sikit : i was ldp jgk, kat dorm kenanga..is it ring the bell? reply me if u do..

Fahidayati Ramli said...

lamanya tak ada citer baru... bz ke atau tak sihat? hopefully, ija sihat.
well, for ur info... saya dah selamat bersalin, baby boy on 18 june 2006 jam 3 pm. now dalam proses berpantang kat umah my parents. hari ni dah masuk 18 hari...
ok take care tau!!!