Wednesday, November 16, 2005

How's Raya?

How's Raya? A near-to-compulsory question the moment you return to work after Raya holiday.

I have to say that our Raya is great, alhamdulillah. Though I could not sleep over at Tok Mak's house during Raya Eve, just like planned (aunties and uncles decided last minute to go back to JB, bringing my cousins along), Hubby is kind enough to drive all the way to JB from Pontian that night so that I could spent the meaningful night with my parent. And came back to Pontian late in the night. Thanks dear!

Ashraff was cooperative with us throughout the whole period, including visiting about more than 10 houses in a day at Muar. He captures everyone attention with his jovial character and his blabbering in "German" language. Thank God he has lost his stranger anxiety and can get along with just about anybody (except for my Uncle Raymie who scared him to death).

One thing I found out during Raya is Ashraff likes to socialize with children that is at least 2-3 years older than him. And is more attracted to cute lil lass..hmmmmm...

I guess by mixing and socializing, Ashraff learns lots of new skills during Raya. He knows how to say "Bye Bye" with action, "Kuk, kuk, kuk" - imitating the sound of rooster (and continue to do this while searching for one in KL..feeling all frustrated when he could not find one..) and pointing his fingers to place he wants to go or things that he want.

All in all, just like every Raya, it feels good to be able to meet with relatives that we only met once a year (that is during Raya). One thing that saddens me is that they are lesser house to visit in Muar (we used to visit more than 10 houses) as some have passed away for the last one year. During the year, mak's pak long and pak uda have passed away. Tok Lon's mother has also passed away. Those were a must-visit house in Muar the previous year. I guess that is life..

Unlike Muar, Pontian and JB, in KL is all about visiting the second generation - mak and abah's cousin, me and hubby's cousin and also friends. So, most of our nights during weekdays and the whole weekend are spent visiting or entertaining guest.

Oh yeah, friends, do come to our house in either Bukit Antarabangsa and Cheras. But do buzz us first to make us stand-by for your visit. We PLAN to do open house but it is still in planning and Raya is almost over, so I guess we won't be having any this year..Maybe next year..


9 comments:

Nana said...

Ija, who said it had to be during raya? can oso buat after raya but call it makan - makan instead of open house. heheheh

p/s: am planning one myself. i'll email you when dah confirm nanti.

zan said...

eii..comelnya ashraff dgn ketayap dia..sedondon semua :)

i think toddler at initial stage like to socialize with older kids, same goes with my son.

rafiqaheliza said...

Nana: Oh boleh ke? hehehe..but then no kuih raya lah..no duit raya for aliah..and no spirit of raya. Tak syok!

Na, rasa tak syok tak dpt reply your blog. I like your Raya's family photo..

Zan: We actually have to forced him to wear the ketayap..see how i kepit his hand.

I guess toddler his age finds the older kids amazing and easily attracted to them..

Zan, is there anythg wrong with modblog? I could not access the site..

Nana said...

i think u have one of them pop up blockers on ur browser. tu pasal takleh nak baca komen.

dont worry, at my place.. ada jugak duit raya nanti for the kids eventhough dah abes raya. kuih raya pon banyak lagi. hehehe.. i'll send an email to you informing bout the event later.

Unknown said...

so cute ashraff with baju melayu....hheehhe siap songkok lagi you.....byk ka dia dapat duit raya this year?

rafiqaheliza said...

Nana: bestnye!!! keep me posted:)

Fina: Ashraff lepas Raya poket penuh..Ibu and ayah dia, poket kosong..

famyGirl said...

i excited this year sbb aidiin boleh pakai baju melayu (still pjg berjela but kira okay lah). hee hee. mcm ashraff lah.. comel in a kelakar way.

modblog sakit tenat... mmg tengah down pun. kitorg sedang menjejak kasih kat blogspot ni.

rafiqaheliza said...

Famy: I memang excited. Saw aidiin's and sofea's pic on your blogspot. Cute sgt! Aidiin pun taknak anythg on his head ke? Just like Ashraff..

Cherry said...

Raya is quadraply good this year :) Raya kat KT, Raya kat Bandung, Raya kat opis, Raya kat Shah Alam ... Raya sakannnnn !